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  • Sex tomorrow  morning

    Sex tomorrow morning

    My profile has been on yahoo.com for I don’t know how long.  It’s free so what the hell.  Every year or so I update it.  Three weeks ago I talked on the phone with someone who had found me on yahoo.  He is a real estate developer and has… Read More
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  • Love as Luxury

    Love as Luxury

    Is love a luxury? Last summer a man I liked “poof” disappeared, leaving me grumpy and sad, so I responded to a married man who wanted company at the theatre. He said he and his wife had drifted way, way apart, and they had renegotiated their marriage contract,… Read More
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  • Dating Married Men:  What Are the Rules?

    Dating Married Men: What Are the Rules?

    Maybe the institution of marriage is failing. Fifty percent of marriages end in divorce, and many of the rest of them aren’t in good shape. The institution as a whole deserves re-thinking, and the rules surrounding it deserve re-thinking. Should I observe the conventional rules and… Read More
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  • Is Sixty Too Old to Climb a New Mountain?

    Is Sixty Too Old to Climb a New Mountain?

    Is 60 tIn 2002, when I was 60 years old, seven of us decided to climb Blue Mountain in the Adirondacks. I’d done it before and wasn’t too enthusiastic, but here was a challenge. Could I still do it? Rock climbing wasn’t my thing, but what else would… Read More
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  • What's a butt massage?

    What's a butt massage?

    I’m a good swimmer. Not the fastest one, but my form is excellent. I waste little motion. My body stays on a steady forward trajectory, I stretch all my moving parts, and there is little splashing. One day a man who was toweling himself off at the side of the… Read More
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